Hi! My name is Megan and I'm polyamorous and queer! đ
I'm studying dietetics and I live in TN, USA. I currently have a partner and I am constantly learning how to be better in my relationship so when I have more I'll be ready! Currently trying not to cry as I finish college. I'm hoping to attend Oklahoma State University for grad school, so please message me if you're in or near the Stillwater area!!
Mainstream feminist culture talks about ending “hyper masculinity” yet encourages practices of “weaponized femininity”… Ever notice how that directly translates into women being forced into stricter sex roles whereas it allows men to bend theirs more easily? Wonder who started that idea?
*facepalm* So, given that sex ed in the US is a tire fire:
Vagina-having people have a shorter urethra, which means weâre more prone to UTIs because the bacteria doesnât have to travel as far to get up into your bladder and cause a problem.
Which means if youâre exposing your bits to bacteria (as with sex), peeing will flush out bacteria in the urethra. (Urine isnât actually sterile - thatâs a myth - but youâre *supposed to* have a little bit of bacteria - thatâs how bodies work. But it still flushes things out that shouldnât be there.)
Oh! You should ALSO pee after you masturbate, especially if it involves penetration with fingers/toys/etc
So Iâve blocked like five transphobes on this post, which I feel should have been relatively uncontroversial.
If youâre one of the people saying âYou meant âwomenââ, fuck you. I meant âpeople who have a vagina, regardless of their gender or lack thereofâ, and you can go fuck yourself with a cactus.
And you should pee afterward, so you donât get a UTI.
[Image Description: a photograph of a wolf in on top of a rock, looking over the forest below. In orange 3D text it says âALWAYS PEE AFTER SEXâ. Majestic. End ID]
In Austria, we call kittens at that age âAutodromkatzerlâ, which translates to âbumper car kittensâ, because of the way their tail sticks up. Itâs not a really common word, but a very cute one, I think
this is a genuinely delightful bit of knowledge, thank you for sharing this!! omg
not to be dramatic but we desperately need a punk movement to come in and wash away this Instagram model airbrushed picture perfect trend. it’s so damaging……teens, young adults, kids, the Grown….all of us need to just. we need to be sweaty again. we deserve it smeared eyeliner…..idk just. it’s okay if ur hair is greasy please just relax & then get mad about stuff that’s important to you.
okay not to sound like I’m preaching about the meaning of Emo to my mom in 2008 but the thing is, especially when you’re young, things are all messy and sort of falling apart, and you’re confused and angry and sad and that’s alright,
but there used to be this idea among my friends and peers that it was okay to LOOK the way you felt. falling apart? cool, brag about how your eyeliner is on day three and you’re in the same hoodie you always wear. no, it’s not the same as getting help, but at least you’re VENTING.
now, there’s so much pressure to hide it. to bottle it all up. Instagram isn’t the root cause, but it really is a shrine to our current mainstream push to make our lives look perfect to the onlooker. It’s not healthy!!!!
We just need to be allowed to look like shit when we feel like shit again!!!!!
Look like shit 2020!!!!!!!!!!
I just feel that even though we’ve made leaps and bounds in the realm of mental health discussion and such it’s all so SANITIZED now. sure, you can mention your issues, but don’t display any of the ugliness of it. You have to look acceptable. the model of recovery. I’m rejecting it!!!
in 2020 we’re going to embrace ugliness and be vocal about our greatest challenges!!!!!!!